Supporting a Survivor

Healing after sexual violence is deeply personal, with no single path forward. Many survivors find strength in connection — whether with peers, supportive communities, or professionals. These relationships can ease feelings of isolation, reduce guilt or shame, and provide tools for coping. Even when survivors understand they are not to blame, it often takes time and support to fully believe it.

For some, reconnecting with their body and emotions may feel overwhelming. Some survivors experience disconnection or turn to risky behaviors to manage pain. While facing these feelings can be difficult, avoiding them can cause further harm. With compassionate support and mental health resources, survivors can begin to process trauma, reclaim safety, and move toward healing.

Relationships and intimacy after assault can bring new challenges. Survivors may face triggers that complicate dating, while partners may feel uncertain about how to provide support. To open space for these conversations, SafeBAE partnered with Teen Vogue to produce Dating After Sexual Assault. The short video and teaching guide affirm that healing looks different for everyone and offer practical tools for navigating trust, communication, and boundaries, creating space for survivors and partners to explore healthy intimacy after trauma.

If you’d like immediate support from a trained professional, you can text ‘loveis’ to 22522

Shareable Graphics

Survivor-Centered Media

Consent-Themed Picture Books (Children)

Consent Themed Books for Younger Children

Documentaries

  • A Thousand Girls Like Me

  • Allen v. Farrow

  • Aly Raisman: Darkness to Light

  • Athlete A

  • Audrie & Daisy

  • Dive

  • I Am Evidence

  • Jeffrey Epstein: Filthy Rich

  • On the Record

  • Phoenix Rising

  • Roll Red Roll

  • Surviving R. Kelly

  • The Hunting Ground

  • Untouchable

  • Victim/Suspect

  • What Haunts Us

Films & TV (Scripted)

  • 8th Grade

  • I May Destroy You

  • Moxie

  • Pink

  • Promising Young Woman

  • The Assistant

  • Unbelievable

Nonfiction Books & Memoirs

Young Adult Fiction

Podcasts & Alternative Media

  • Your Friend is Accused of SA, Now What? (Teenager Therapy)

  • Man Enough (Justin Baldoni, Liz Plank, Jamey Heath)

  • Unscrewed (Jaclyn Friedman)

  • Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself — Kristin Neff

  • You Throw Like a Girl — Don McPherson

Useful Resources

There are many resources to help find your local services. We recommend contacting your local rape crisis services to get recommendations for services close to you.  Additionally there are these hotlines:

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